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Blake Lively, The Hound of the Baskervilles, Free Guy, David Goggins, and a Dhammapada Verse

Sunday Supplement #155 (April 28th, 2024)

Below is another Sunday Supplement with a quote worth sharing, a book worth reading, a movie worth watching, brainfood worth consuming, and a spiritual passage worth pondering.

Please take something away from these recommendations that enriches your week ahead!

Quote of the Week:

“The most beautiful thing you can wear is confidence.”

– Blake Lively

Book of the Week:

The Hound of the Baskervilles – Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

Sir Arthur Conan Doyle was a famous British writer who contributed significantly to the history of literature. His Sherlock Holmes stories are milestones of the crime fiction genre.

Doyle wrote four novels and around fifty short stories featuring the famous Holmes and Dr. Watson. The Hound of the Baskervilles was one of the four novels.

The novel is set in Dartmoor, Devon, England, and follows Holmes and Watson’s investigation of a hound of legend with an apparent supernatural origin.

What’s interesting to me is that Dr. Watson helms the novel. Although he is usually considered Holmes’s sidekick, he takes the lead on the case in this novel, with Holmes flitting in and out and playing a more prominent part toward the end.

You’ve most likely seen one of the numerous iterations of Sherlock Holmes in film or television, but if you haven’t checked out the original writing, I highly recommend this one.

Movie of the Week:

Free Guy

Ryan Reynolds and Jodie Comer star in Free Guy, a film about a bank teller who learns he’s living in a video game as a passive actor where real-world people’s characters play.

The bank teller, Guy, becomes aware of his situation and learns that his world is under threat as a human player informs him the game will be deleted.

The film is entertaining and introspective. It raises existential questions about how we decide to live our lives wrapped in a funny and heartfelt narrative.

I think many movies in recent years aim to be funny with minimal effort from the stories and characters without really offering much more than the equivalent of an empty calorie.

Free Guy is a refreshing take on a blockbuster film that offers a little more depth with its actions and laughs.

Brainfood of the Week:

DO THIS To Make Yourself Immune To Pain & DESTROY LAZINESS | David Goggins & Lewis Howes

I clipped this YouTube video to start at the point in Lewis Howe’s interview with David Goggins where Howe prompts the question, “How do I gain more confidence?”

Goggins states going to your comfort zone won’t help you gain confidence. Confidence starts with yourself and diving into things you’re afraid of. 

He explains how facing your fears builds confidence. You don’t have to always overcome them but understand that facing them is better than staying in your comfort zone.

I’ve featured David Goggins in a couple of previous Sunday Supplements. Check out any of the posts for a glimpse at his time in the United States Armed Forces and his subsequent journey as one of the world’s top endurance athletes.

Howes is a two-time New York Times bestselling author, All-American athlete, keynote speaker, and entrepreneur. His podcast features inspiring interviews with leaders across many fields.

Closing Spiritual Passage:

“Just as a solid rock is not shaken by the storm, even so the wise are not affected by praise or blame.”

– Dhammapada 81

I think it can be easy to get caught up in external emotions, but this Dhammapada verse is a great reminder not to let outside events influence you too much.

When we let ourselves be buoyed too much by external praise or knocked low by external criticism, we give away our power to control our sense of self-worth.

We can be extremely critical of ourselves or have an inflated ego. Striking a balance between the two is a worthwhile pursuit, but external influence should also be taken with a grain of salt.

The biggest lesson I take from this verse is to continue pursuing meaningful activities without letting others control our experience of them.

Be confident in who you are, and have a blessed week ahead!

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Thomas Merton, The Man’s Guide to Women, The Wind Rises, TED-Ed, and 1 John 4:18

Sunday Supplement #69 (September 4th, 2022)

Below is another Sunday Supplement with a quote worth sharing, a book worth reading, a movie worth watching, brainfood worth consuming, and a spiritual passage worth pondering.

I hope you take something away from these recommendations that enriches your week ahead!

Quote of the Week:

“The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.”

– Thomas Merton

Book of the Week:

The Man’s Guide to Women – John Gottman, PhD & Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD

John and Julie Gottman’s book is based on 40 years of research. John is a world-renowned relationship expert, and his wife Julie is a clinical psychologist and researcher.

Their combined knowledge, along with co-authors Rachel and Doug Adams – best-selling authors about intimacy and passion – culminated in The Man’s Guide to Women.

The book addresses how men can make or break relationships, how to approach a woman and build a connection with her, and how to navigate relationships.

I don’t think relationship advice can be summed up in one book, but The Man’s Guide to Women provided many interesting findings and pointers.

Relationship books are a fascinating section of self-help literature and worth delving into. Check this one out and see if it resonates with you.

Movie of the Week:

The Wind Rises

The Wind Rises is a fictionalized biographical film about Jiro Horikoshi, the designer of two prestigious aircraft models used by the Empire of Japan during World War II.

Jiro’s journey starts with ambitions of becoming a pilot. However, due to his poor vision, he cannot fly, but he quickly finds himself dreaming of building his own planes.

What fascinated me with The Wind Rises was the exploration of Jiro’s dreams and how the government’s agenda created much adversity around pursuing that dream.

The relationship between Jiro and Naoko and the challenges they faced in their lives was also beautifully depicted.

The Wind Rises was nominated for an Academy Award for Best Animated Feature and a Golden Globe Award for Best Foreign Language Film.

I haven’t featured a Studio Ghibli movie in a while, but I’m glad I have the chance to recommend another one of their brilliant films.

Brainfood of the Week:

3 Tips to Boost Your Confidence | TED-Ed

This short presentation is an animated video that dissects confidence and explains three easy tips for how to boost your own.

The video discusses confidence as self-worth— believing you are valuable, worthwhile, and capable. Add optimism, self-esteem, empowerment, and courage, and you have confidence.

Several factors that impact confidence are genes, how you’re treated, and the choices you make in your life.

The three tips the video goes over are quick fixes, belief in your ability to improve, and practicing failure.

TED-Ed goes over each of these tips in detail and provides examples of why and how these tips can help boost your confidence.

There are many short videos that provide helpful information, and this TED-Ed video is one worth checking out.

Closing Spiritual Passage:

“There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.”

– 1 John 4:18

This Bible passage reminds me of the power of love.

In my first Sunday Supplement, I discussed Matthew 22:39 and how you pour from an empty cup if you don’t have love for yourself.

I believe this sentiment comes up in this passage as well. If you do not have love for yourself, you will have doubts about your value and your actions.

There can be pain if things don’t turn out the way you wanted them to, but when you know you acted out of love, you know you did your best.

Do your best to act from love, and have a blessed week ahead!

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